If the movies have taught us anything in the last decade it’s that on some level we all wish we were Navy SEALs.
Kidding (kind of), but if we could all learn how to build the physical and mental capacity these warriors have I’d guess we’d all be better off.
Think about it. If you could forge a mental toughness that could overcome any obstacle, deal with any hardship, and come out of the other side intact and ready to keep taking the world by the balls then I’d guess you’d have a pretty positive outlook on life and a boatload of confidence.
The good news is you don’t have to sign up for BUD/s to find out if you’ve got the toughness that makes these warriors some of the hardest and best in the world. You can practice mental toughness every day and build an ability to deal with that asshole boss, overcome the loss of that big client, slug it out in the ring that is entrepreneurship, or get that last set done in the gym and finally crush your fitness goals.
With the 6 exercises below (3 mental & 3 physical) you’ll be well on your way to building the mental toughness that will propel you to new heights in the gym, business, and life.
3 Mental Exercises
1. ) Take away your extrinsic motivators
Here are a couple scenarios for you:
1.) You arrive at your nice, clean, air-conditioned gym in the morning before heading into work. You meet up with your training partner and talk about your game plan to crush your workout today. You throw in your headphones and crank up that perfect death metal workout mix.
2.) After a particularly long and shitty day at work, you head home, grab a sandbag, a pair of heavy kettlebells, and head outside to an empty park on a particularly hot and shitty day. You left your headphones at home, no music, no encouraging training partner, just you. You’re gonna have to suffer in silence.
In which of these two scenarios are you going to get a better workout?
I’d guess most of you would say scenario number 1, right? The environment is perfect, you’re well rested, your buddy is there to motivate you through those last few reps.
But here is the real question…
How many of you would ever put yourself in scenario number 2?
Every once in a while you need to put yourself in that dark place, without the benefit of all those external motivators, and slug it out with yourself.
You’d be surprised how fast those little voices pop up in your head and start nagging you to “just go home”, they tell you, “One skipped workout is fine”, they get you to quit.
2.) Develop Good Habits
Mentally tough people are more consistent than you. They understand that motivation may come and go and to truly be successful they need to consistently chip away at the things that matter most.
Want to know what most rich, fit, and successful people have in common?
The create habits that help them achieve their goals and relentlessly stick to them, no matter how tempting it may be to go off course. Great habits will help you overcome the tests and enemies you’ll encounter on your Hero’s Journey without having to rely on your intrinsic motivation each day.
The only reason I’ve been able to get both of my fitness businesses off the ground and relatively successful while maintaining my own health and fitness is that I’ve created habits around the things I know will be easy to blow off. For example, I purposely schedule 15 min blocks between training clients, not in case I run long with one, but because I know I’ll be able to get in a solid 10 minutes of my own workout between clients on exceptionally busy days.
You know what the number one factor is in the success of most diets? The individual’s ability to plan ahead and prepare in advance so they never end up hungry and looking for a quick fix.
3.) Learn to ignore the things that you cannot control
In Ryan Holliday’s book, The Obstacle is the Way he talks about the philosophy of Stoicism or the ability to endure pain or hardship without a display of feelings and without complaint.
The basic premise is: It’s not what happens to you, it is how you react that really matters.
You have complete and total control over how you react to any situation.
However, you need to exercise this practice as much as you work on those pecs.
One of the best resources I’ve found for learning about and implementing a practice of Stoicism into your life can be found on Tim Ferriss’ blog (written by Ryan Holiday) in a post titled: Stoicism 101: A Practical Guide for Entrepreneurs
Once you internalize the lessons of the Stoics your whole outlook on the world will change.
3 Physical Exercises
Carry Heavy Shit
The Roman Legionnaires would routinely be required to carry around 13kg (~28lbs) of weapons, armor, and equipment over long marches (35+ miles per day) and into battle.
The modern-day airborne infantryman in Afghanistan may carry up to 58kg (~127lbs) in external load depending on the mission and travel hundreds of miles on their feet over the course of a deployment
However, you carry a gym bag, occasionally, to your car…
Although we are no longer required to carry 20-100+ pounds of crap everywhere we go it doesn’t mean we can’t build our bodies and our minds by getting back to our roots as warriors.
Some workouts are long, some workouts are intense, and some workouts just plain suck the life out of you. Add these movements into your current routine and see just how fast your mind and body can adapt to the toll they take on you.
Men’s Health called it “A new fitness trend for 2015“, I call it “that thing we had to do all the time (in the military) that sucked really bad and seemed like just walking for extended periods of time carrying a heavy pack for no good reason at all.”
However, since those times I’ve matured to realize that one of the number one ways to build your mental toughness is to put a heavy pack on your back and just go walk for a few hours. Leave the headphones at home and get comfortable with your thoughts (hard to do if you’re crazy).
Now, since I know most of you will probably ignore this one I suggest you make it a bit more fun and sign up for a rucking event like a GORUCK challenge. If you’re going to suffer, you might as well suffer with a team of like-minded others.
2.) Farmer Carries
Pick up a pair of heavy dumbbells or kettlebells and go for a long walk (1/2-1 mile). If you want to rapidly build up your ability to handle “the suck” then this is a great way to do it.
The best part about this is the number of variations you can execute and still get a brutal workout, here are some variations:
a.) 2 x Heavy Dumbbells
b.) 1 x Heavy Dumbbell & 1 x Lighter Dumbell
c.) Single Arm (a.k.a Suitcase carry)
d.) 2 x Heavy Sandbags (Don’t use handles and see how quick you destroy your grip!)
The combinations are nearly endless and they will build some serious strength and mental fortitude.
3.) The Hard Daily Routine
This one is pretty simple and incredibly effective. Pick a single, simple exercise, and perform it every day. For example, in May I completed 200m of walking lunges every single day for 30 days. No matter what else I was training that day I finished off my session with 200m of lunges. This past June I completed 350 kettlebell swings every single day and then went about my normal training routine.
There is something cathartic about knowing that no matter how busy you are or what you’ve got going on that day you have a hard routine that you cannot and will not miss. Commit to something like this and challenge yourself for 30 days and I bet you stop whining about that workout you still have to do after a hard/long day at work.